I thought she was a girl all the time, but then again, I thought the same thing when I was pregnant with Cohan. Scott thought she was a boy the whole time and thought that with Cohan too. Looks like we each had a chance to be right!
Cohan, on the other hand, NEVER wavered. Anyone that would ask him what was in his mommy's tummy, he ALWAYS answered "my baby girl." He said he was having a sister. I don't think that he understands how sister and girl are related and brother and boy are related. However, he KNEW he was having a baby girl that would be his sister.
The night before we found out, I had bought some signs for Cohan to hold to announce baby boy or baby girl. Since I sent a picture to our family of Cohan wearing a BIG BROTHER shirt to announce we were pregnant, I only thought it would be right to have Cohan tell everyone. I handed him the Baby Girl rattle first. He was more than happy to say cheese and smile holding the sign. However, when I tried for the Baby Boy sign, he would say, "No Mommy! No boy!" He wanted nothing to do with that blue sign. We bribed him with candy, TV, toys and food. The kid wouldn't give. Cohan did not want to hold that sign. I guess he knew it was a girl!!
When I was telling my mom this story, she said that my older brother was the same way when she was pregnant with me. She didn't know what she was having, but my brother REFUSED to let her get boy stuff. He told everyone he was having a sister and even got me my baby blanket! Thank goodness this baby is a girl; I wouldn't have wanted to be the person to tell Cohan he was getting a brother!!
That day, Cohan was with Nanny since our sitter was sick. When we went to pick him up, there were pink balloons, a pink gift and Cohan had even decorated this sign!
I thought I would get all boys. I secretly wanted all boys. I HATE pink. At first, I was in disbelief. But, as soon as I found out this baby was a girl, I realized I didn't even know I wanted one so badly. There is a special bond between a parent and a daughter. My mom and dad are my best friends. I talk to them both daily. I am so excited to get to raise a little girl. I think moms and daughters have a special bond. I know I do with my mom. I can't wait to do all the things my mom did with me. Don't get me wrong, my little boy is amazing, but I think raising a girl might be a little different.
My family is super excited because this will be the first girl grand baby on my side. Scott's family is excited that Cousin Avery will have another little girl to play with instead of all boys. This is also exciting, because my best friend, Betsy is pregnant with her first child that is also a little girl! I am so excited to raise little girls with a best friend. They will only be a few weeks apart! This little lady is already so spoiled. Here is a little taste of some of the adorableness that comes with finding out you are having a girl!!
I am so excited about our growing family and am working hard to embrace the color PINK!!!